The UK’s Best Alternative Weekend Getaways

Summer might be over but that doesn’t mean you have to sit inside every weekend! If you’re looking for the perfect getaway for you and your partner, look no further. We’ve found some of the best weekend getaways in the UK – so get those suitcases out ready!

Whether you’re after a beachy break, an action-packed adventure, a quiet cottage in the country or the business of a city, you are sure to find the perfect place for you!

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You may want to escape reality for a few days and give your working self a break or maybe you just want some quality time with your significant other. Either way, you deserve a break, so get packing an overnight bag!

Port Lympne, Kent

Port Lympne is an animal park ran by the Aspinall Foundation, where you can go on safari and get up close and personal to 80 different species of animals. They offer some great weekend break ideas, with a variety of accommodation types you are sure to have an unforgettable experience. Stay in their Tiger Lodge where your back garden is the actual tiger enclosure, it’s a once in a lifetime experience which is not to be missed!

Snowdonia, Wales

For those adventurers who enjoy a hike with some stunning views, why not take a trip to Snowdonia. Grab your walking boots and head up to the top of Snowdon, or if you’d rather, get the train up to ensure your don’t miss out on the views. Here, you have the chance to experience the luxury of living up in the treetops, in your very own treehouse! This peaceful accommodation is perfect for those who want a relaxing,stress-free break.

Cornwall

Ok, it may not have the Barbados weather, but the beaches are still stunning with white sand and turquoise waters, it’s the perfect place to practise your surfing skills. Whether you are a beginner who has never took to t8he waves before, or an expert just after some fun doing what you love, Cornwall’s beaches welcomes you! As well as the impressive walks along the coastal paths and the gorgeous hotels, you can’t forget to taste Cornwall’s favourite foods, including pasties, fish and chips and the clotted cream!

Liverpool

Ahh, a city break which is sure to lift your spirits. Liverpool offers endless fun the variety of people who come to visit. Why not watch a world class show at the Empire theatre or your favorite artist at the Liverpool Echo Arena?

You could visit The Beatles Museum where you can learn all about The Beatles’ story. For those who enjoy a bit of shopping, Liverpool One is famous for its range of high street stores. After your day of exploring, dine at some of the top restaurants around, whether you enjoy a steak house, burger joint or the famous Teppanyaki, Liverpool caters for all.

Lake district

Besides the beautiful lakes which are available for you to visit and stroll around at your own pace, the Lake District is also home to some impressive, historical sites such as the Beatrix Potter museum where you can take a tour around the late author’s home. You will also get the chance to see the scenic village where the poet, William Wordsworth, studied.

Family Holidays with Educational Value

Most people think of holiday as fun, and learning as, well, not always so much fun. It is often children’s (and adults’) perception of learning as boring and dull, that serves as the limiting factor to many aspects of their cognitive and educational development.
Learning can be fun however, honestly! In fact, mainstream education is often criticised (by me anyway) for lacking the ability to teach children practical, hands-on skills. In addition important real world skills such as finance, social & emotional intelligence are absent from the school curriculum.
Family holidays can be a tremendous opportunity to develop social and academic skills.

Culture

One of the most obvious, yet arguably important things to learn on holiday, is an appreciation of local cultures. Children become intrigued by differences, things that they haven’t encountered before. This is an important way for them to make sense of the world around them.
Children can be introduced to different cultures by celebrating cultural events and/or learning about them in books. This can be taken a step further on holiday – by celebrating a significant national event, within a given nation. More obvious examples of these being Chinese New Year – in China, and the Hindu festival of Diwali – in India or an Indian community.
Often overlooked is the importance of teaching British children about the culture, history and diversity of the UK. With a number of fantastic museums dotted around the country, teaching children about important elements of British history is relatively straight forward. From the Pitt Rivers Museum in Oxford, to the National Museum of Scotland in Edinburgh, there is a World-class museum that’s great for families in most major UK cities.
You can find a list of free family museums here. Of course, to explore the true culture of the UK, it’s best to do as much as possible, in as many UK towns and cities as possible. What better, than a first hand experience of hearing the diverse range of accents, the inevitable queuing at popular attractions and traditional and local foods such as oatcakes in Stoke and haggis in Scotland.

 

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Nature

learning about animals in books is great. However, nothing beats first hand experience. Even if you don’t see some of the UK’s rarest animals (like adders, minks etc), every woodland and beach is an educational playground just waiting to be explored. Being ‘in nature’ has a multitude of psychological benefits, being by the sea has arguably even more mental-health benefits, with multiple studies demonstrating that the negative hydrogen ions found in sea air, improve our mood by balancing serotonin levels.
Whilst most adults will benefit from the restorative power of nature and the sea, children can learn a huge amount too. In fact, if you want to get the most out of family holidays to beaches and woodlands, there are specific qualifications and teaching courses designed for teachers and volunteers. Click here to see the Beach Schools course and here to see one of the Forest Schools qualifications.

However, a teaching course is a bonus, rather than a necessity. Spending time as a family, learning practical skills and an appreciation for nature and conservation, are all important for a child’s social and psychological development. In addition, being ‘in nature’ has been shown to reduce stress in children, as well as in adults. You can see a study and report about the reduced stress level in children here.
Due to a growing demand, there are more holiday parks being developed in woodlands, and of course, on the British coastline. Darwin Escapes for example, have recently developed parks in Keswick and Cheddar. If you live across the pond, there are an embarrassing number of holiday lodges and cabins available – check out the website HomeAway.com for a quick overview.

Some things that you can teach children at the beach or in the woods include:
– Safety and risk
– How to have fun for free (a walk in the woods costs nothing)
– Names & types of trees
– Names & types of other plants & foliage
– Animals found in the forest
– Environmental / Conservation awareness
– Jobs available in forestry & related industries
– Bushcraft (building dens for example)
– Exploring rock pools
– How the beach changes depending on the time of day
– Sensory development – e.g. sound of the sea & touch of the sand
– Which animals belong to which shells on the beach
A holiday in nature of course, can also provide a great opportunity for adults to learn new skills and knowledge too!

 

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Food & Cooking

You can teach children about food and cooking anywhere, of course. However, local food is best enjoyed in the given local area “when in Rome Rodney”. For example, whilst on holiday in the UK, you can enjoy a Hog’s pudding in Cornwall, some rag pudding in Oldham and jellied eels in the East End of London. Well, maybe not jellied eels…
Cooking is a hugely undervalued yet crucial skill that has been lost, to a certain extent on recent generations – partly thanks to convenience foods and pre-packaged meals, partly due to the time-constraints related to modern living. Try buying ingredients and recreating some of these culinary ‘treats’ when you arrive home. Remember cooking should be fun for children (and preferably for adults!), so don’t stress about the end result…

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For more information about teaching children to cook, see this guide on the BBC website.
You can move this up a proverbial notch by growing your own ingredients too. Something we’ll discuss in a future blog post no doubt. In the meantime this website might give you some ideas.

An Introduction to Finance & Accounting

Accounting, law, HR, recruitment- not the most exciting of topics. No child dreams (I don’t think) of sorting out a company’s auto-enrolment in their day to day work, or being a family solicitor.

Having said that, graduates who qualify with an accounting degree, are amongst the best paid of all graduates, and often carry on to have long and successful careers in the area.

The ICAEW reports that you can expect to be making £45,000 on qualification, while the average earning potential of ICAEW chartered accountants in business, six to nine years after qualifying is £85,900 (£71,600 salary + £14,300 bonus).

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Note – to be a fully qualified accountant, you will normally require around 3 years of work experience.

Even if your child or student, does not end up following the golden-career-path of accounting, he or she will still benefit from an understanding of finance, an appreciation of money and a solid grasp of Maths.

Maths can lead to careers in computer programming, data analyses and even teaching!

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Introducing Children to Money

You can introduce a young child, aged 2 or 3 to money, just by teaching them the names of the coins and notes.

Then of course, you can also ‘play shop’.

  • Get some fake money (or some real, up to you!)
  • Find some items to ‘sell’
  • Set up a ‘play’ store complete with signage and a catchy name
  • Give each item a price
  • Hand out the fake money to family
  • Close up when everything is sold, and count the profits!

For older children, you can even introduce the idea of overheads, running costs and profits.

Add in some marketing with some flyers and catchy slogans too!

Note – I also think it’s really important that children grow up understanding the ‘game’ of marketing.  How companies and TV adverts try and convince or even trick us into parting with money…

Wants & Needs

This is a general lesson-for-life, but can be tied into finances quite easily.

The Desert Island game is great for this.

Have different items, represented by cut-out images on card.

From all the items – TV, Xbox, Tins of food, fishing rod, a shelter, designer jeans, water, toys, etc.

Get the child, or the students, to pick these they ‘need’, and afterwards explain why they need them.

You could take the game up a notch, by assigning each player a set amount of money, and giving each item a price.

“If you had £20 to buy items to live on a desert island for 5 years – what would you buy? Think about what you need rather than what you want”

In addition to games, you can also introduce the idea of saving money, and waiting to buy something that you want.
For example, try not to buy children something every time that you go into a shop, otherwise they will automatically associate the two. Discuss whenever possible, even in a queue at the supermarket – how it’s important to wait for what you want.  And how you shouldn’t buy things impulsively.

Discuss whenever possible, even in a queue at the supermarket – how it’s important to wait for what you want.  And how you shouldn’t buy things impulsively.

Pocket Money

Pocket money is a great way to introduce some kind of financial responsibility. You can give them pocket money for completing jobs and tasks around the house, or give them a set amount for lunch each week, and ensure that they understand how to budget for the entire week.

You can give them pocket money for completing jobs and tasks around the house, or give them a set amount for lunch each week, and ensure that they understand how to budget for the entire week.

Think creatively and you could even use pocket money as a way to introduce maths, and even Excel spreadsheets.

 

Fostering a Positive Attitude Towards Maths

Learned helplessness is a big problem for educators.

It’s important that children exhibit an ‘internal locus of control’

This is whereby a person understands that he or she are in control of their achievements.
They don’t blame external or permanent factors such as bad luck or just ‘not being good at maths’.

It’s also important for children to understand, that if you fail once at a maths-related task, that doesn’t influence or predetermine the outcome of a second maths task.

A perceived lack of control, can lead to ‘generalised helpless behaviour’ which has even been linked to anxiety and depression.

Reward children for working hard and not for ‘being clever’.

Positively reinforce and ensure they keep a growth mindset, rather than a fixed mindset in regards to learning maths.

Whenever a child exclaims “I don’t understand it”

Correct them, and get them to say with you “I don’t understand it, yet

 

Introduce Accounting in High School

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There’s a good chance that this won’t be taught in mainstream schools at any point.

Youtube is a great place to find lessons and tips for teaching accounting to children.

This will give them the opportunity to pursue the subject further if it’s something that they enjoy.

 

You don’t have to go to university to be an accountant. You can learn more about qualifying as an accountant on the prospects website.

Is Paintball Suitable for Children & What Can be Learnt?

Paintball is a great day out for children. However, as much fun as paintball is, a paintball pellet leaves the barrel of a marker at over 200mph. You have to be confident you can trust your children to treat the equipment with respect.

 

How young is too young?

Most paintball venues in the UK will agree that players under 12 years old shouldn’t be playing, others might mandate a different minimum age but can offer packages for younger players if there’s a large booking. A handful of venues in the UK offered a modified, low-impact version of paintball for younger children – using much smaller and less powerful guns.

 

Precautions for younger paintball players:

Organise a group well ahead of time and make it clear to your venue that you intend to bring young players. This will give the venue a chance to organise your party to play against people at their age and skill level.

 

Make sure young players come wearing appropriate clothing. Your kids are guaranteed to get a bit mucky from scrambling about in a field, and baggy clothing helps minimise the bruising of getting hit by pellets.

 

Supervision is also necessary. While the vast majority of paintball facilities have referees to oversee player behaviour, it would be prudent to bring additional adults to make sure children are playing as safely as possible.

 

 

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As we mentioned earlier, the United Kingdoms Paintball Sporting Federation is the self-regulation body for paintball facilities in the UK, and you should look for their endorsement of a paintball organisation ahead of booking a trip. Adherents to the UKPSF standards offer basic levels of first aid, staff training and public liability insurance.

 

If your children are simply too young to play paintball, a safer alternative might be laser tag. Laser tag can be played at dedicated indoor venues, but some paintball facilities will offer your children the chance play outdoors in the closest thing to a paintball experience without the risk of injury.

 

 

Laser-based games are actually played by adults as well and offer a few advantages over traditional paintball. No bruises, you won’t run out of pellets, the lasers are more accurate and there’s no need to worry about clunky safety gear. It’s worth thinking about booking laser tag even if your children are old enough to play paintball.

 

What can Children Learn from Paintball?

Understandably, some parents may have reservations about their child running around with a replica gun.  However, having read a number of books about child, and human psychology (including the Chimp Paradox which I highly recommend), it is clear that children need an outlet for aggression and it is also of great psychological benefit for them to get into ‘flow state‘.

This does however, have to be closely supervised and controlled.  Ensuring that games remain friendly and everyone shakes hands and has fun at the end is imperative. In addition, like other sports, paintball teaches teamwork, communication, is great for fitness and helps children to control adrenaline – the fight, flight or freeze reflex.  Without experiencing the infamous adrenaline rush, and without understanding and learning how to control it – these can lead to serious problems in dealing with stress in later life.  If children have a good grounding in ethics and treating people how they would like to be treated themselves (outside of the sporting arena), paintball will help not hinder their development. As a regular hobby for children, martial arts like BJJ are also a good shout.